Wednesday, 06 May 2009

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    i gotta be honest, moving on is something really really hard right now. even worst with knowing all these news, rumours and seeing pictures of him and his new gf. still can't believe it all ended just like that. seriously, something is wrong somewhere and i surely don't think it was me.

    been keeping busy. with work. according to our manila plan, we will be flying this 17th may but then with the recent development on swine flu and WHO announcement of it being at level 5, our office have put a restriction on all international travel for business purposes.

    this has got me a little bit demotivated but when the logic hits me, i know we have more than enough time to really prepare and get everything done before the greenlight is given. whenever that is! haha...

    i still break down and cry sometimes. whenever i hear songs that we shared. oh yea, his birthday is in May, which i can't help but think about him. saw that i put a 'J' mark on my office calendar. i had it removed and put other important dates and deadlines on the calendar just to take my mind of it. 

    then i remembered about my own birthday. how his gifts never really reached me. and that reminds me, i wanna have the best birthday ever this year! any ideas?

    anyway, on a happier note. went on shopping spree last weekend. saturday - bought few tops, dress-like shirt and blazer @ Zara warehouse sale, el cheapo wrist watch and cool pair of shoes! sunday - bought lips gloss, facial stuff, tin cans, pouch, mug, @ Stila clearance sale and few pairs of socks / foot comfort @ parkson.

    on an even happier note. a friend at work said that i look thinner now - body and face! and she said that i look very stylish these days...and then she asked if i'm getting married! haha...of course, with a compliment like that i can't help but thanked her. though i should've asked her to recommend me someone since i'm not getting married anytime soon! hahaha...take note: i'm not desperate but it's always good to get to know new people, right?

    guess that's all for now. hoping to get the greenlight to fly soon and that i'll continue moving on, having fun and smiling as i always do...*group hugs*

    fyi, been taking these fun quizzes on facebook and thought i'd share the best ones, in my opinion with y'all. appreciate your thoughts as always

    p/s: heard that he might have got his new gf pregnant...and yea she's few years younger than i am...but i gotta admit that i saw a picture of him, looking a bit odd somehow and he didn't seem like the guy i once know...yup that's a sign, moving on now...hehe...

    have an AWESOME week, everyone!!!

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    Aishah completed the quiz "Where will you meet "Mr. Right"?" with the result Traveling!
    You are most likely to meet your "Mr.Right" traveling! Avoid vacation destinations that cater to families and choose instead cruises, exotic locations that allow for helicopter rides, or all inclusive resorts that cater to singles (with frequent flights from your area--which increases the chance of him living local!). While traveling with a friend is a fun way to go, don't discount traveling solo and staying in hostels or accommodations that focus on group activities. While traveling, gravitate towards city wide events, festivals and cafes. Be sure to strike up conversations with others, ask questions, advice and just even ask them about themselves or where they are headed that day. The more people you talk to, the bigger the network and pool you will have to choose from! If you have specific hobbies or interests, find destinations or cruises that cater to these interests which will increase your chance at finding Mr.Right doing the things that you love and enjoy.Get involved and be part of the action on your trip- play a volleyball game, try out a new adventure, take a bus ride and explore the countryside. During your travels, just be cautious of finding "Mr.Right Now"--he is the man who is eager to start into a serious relationship immediately...give it time, allow it to grow, leave time to get to know his friends, family and interests --even if it means traveling back to connect, it's a great excuse for a vacation! So, start booking the next trip and be sure to bring your camera- everyone will want a shot of "when you two first met" ..and let the journey begin!
     
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    Aishah completed the quiz "Who is your "perfect match"?" with the result Intelligent Thinker.
    Your perfect match is someone who is kind, creative and quiet. This person is a thinker, someone who enjoys observing and analyzing the world. This type of person is content to let you do all the talking, yet is intelligent and bright and can contribute a wealth of knowledge to any conversation. While this person might seem aloof or even shy, once you get to know them, they are incredibly interesting, full of life and their serious side will compliment your more out-going nature. The top traits they are looking for in a mate include someone who is supportive, compassionate and understands their introverted nature. While this person might be somewhat skeptical that love exists because they are not big risk-takers and the choose their friends cautiously, deep down they are ready and eager to fall in love and will fall deeply for you, forming a deep and eternal bond.
     
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    Aishah completed the quiz "What "Periodic Element" are you?" with the result Gold.
    You are true blue. You have the vibrant qualities of Helium but you are not superficial. Your qualities are real and very deep. You are loyal, trustworthy, ethical, all of the things a Boy Scout would be. You are of great value to those around you simply because you care and are there for them when they truly need help. Who can say something bad about you? Except those who are jealous...
     

Comments (14)

  • d3vilst3ch

    relax kak aishah, i know it's not easy but i believe u r strong enough to face new day everyday. rajin nye pegi shopping. i can only manage to window shopping consider myself as on budget. itu nak ini nak tapi kene tahan je lah.

  • glorycato

    Great compliments from your friend! It's always nice to get boosts of confidence like that especially when you're feeling a little down. Maybe it's time to de-friend him on facebook so you don't have to be reminded of how he hurt you and have to see pictures of him and someone else?

  • AishahAnsari

    @d3vilst3ch - yup, i believe i am strong too but then you know how it is...these little thoughts creep back into my head! hahah....had to let my inner shopaholic out coz last month had to saved like mad! now have to be back on saving-money mode, wanna do some shopping in manila next!  ;)


    btw, how's the job-hunting going?


    @glorycato - yea she really made my day...errr, i've already took him off my list when he posted a pic of them on his album...though i have my ways of checking/stalking him unnoticed haha...was thinking of adding him back for his bday but then i think i better not for at least a year...or two...or never

  • ihsankhairir

    good luck on moving on... it may not be easy but it's much more worth it in the long run... may you find another that'll be much much better in every way than he is.

  • imsushi

    K.Aisyah be strong! dont worry, you'll find someone better than before! aja aja fighting! sorry lama tak singgah sini. :)

  • iml109

    here is what i'm thinking. that a-hole probly never sent u ur gifts!! meh, it's good ur going out at least... and u could've at least invited me!!! hmph... :(

  • AishahAnsari

    @ihsankhairir - thanks, bro!


    @imsushi - thanks, sis! singgah lah selalu ;)


    @iml109 - i kinda thought the same too! hahah...sorry for not asking you to join us, went with my sister...and totally impromptu ;)


  • karen_lynn

    I'm glad you have a lot of good going on as well while trying to get over this guy.


    If he can just move on so fast, he didn't feel right about you.  He didn't feel the right way about you to keep going.  You've just got to feel greatful that he's out of the picture then.  Can you imagine, if he felt the way he did, and married you, and the relationship was that much harder to get out of?  THAT would have been a nightmare.  Never the less, that perspective still doesn't take away the hurt and the betrayal you likely feel (particiularly if he presented he felt one way, long into the relationship, when he eventually could see he felt differently.  Maybe he just didn't know how to get out of it- I have no idea why he did that to you).  I think if he moved on so quickly, in his heart, he may have started  to feel differently way before (but unfortunately, he didn't tell you.).  Anyhow, I am sorry you are feeling so much pain.  Luckily, since he didn't feel right about it, he's gone.  It's good he's gone then.


    Hope you have a good time on your trip!:)


    <3,


    Karen

  • AishahAnsari

    @karen_lynn - *BIG HUGS* thanks karen ;) yea i totally agree with you. i am glad that it ended though breaking up isn't always easy to deal with but then again, i've learnt from this and now just carrying on with life :D


    good news is...the restriction on international travel have been lifted for all places except to Mexico...due to obvious reasons :P i'm just glad that i am gonna be able to see our new friends in manila and to travel there...yay!!!


    pray for my safety and more importantly, health ;) thanks again!

  • farahamizah
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    sabar k.aishah....semua yg terjadi ada hikmahnya...

    keep up ur big smile slalu ok ;)

  • kikai_soul

    awww... i hope you'll be ok soon. I'm sure your Manila trip will be fun :)

  • angel241

    wow..... akak...... its a good thing that you broke up with him........... since he actually "might" get his GF pregnant......
    imagine what is going to happen if he does visit you..... I know you probably can control yourself but manalah tau..him!
    but anywho.... I dont want to judge ler......but it is sad to see how he has  potential  to be "mualaf" when he met you.

    But he make the decision to go the other route....his lost...not yours.... =)  always pray the best for ya!

  • AishahAnsari

    @farahamizah - yup! will keep smiling big :D thanks!


    @kikai_soul - thanks...actually it's a 'work' trip to manila for 6 weeks...hoping to do some sightseeing and relax during weekends ;) i am sure it'll be awesome :D


    @angel241 - yea i know...when his friend told me about it, macam tak sangka but it's his life hahah...seriously i dont think i know him anymore and don't really care hehe...totally his loss! thanks, my dear *hugs*


    i'm happy now and alhamdulillah for everything ;)

  • d3vilst3ch

    see, u have lots of people behind you. Yeah, i understand the thoughts can be cruel sometimes.

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